著者

Kojima Nanae Ota Makoto Takamoto Yukiko Fukada Hiromi

出版者

広島大学大学院教育学研究科心理学講座

雑誌

Hiroshima Psychological Research (ISSN:13471619)

巻号頁・発行日

no.6, pp.71-85, 2007-03-30

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大学生にとって,恋愛はとても関心の高い問題であり,恋愛における告白は恋愛関係を開始する上で重要なきっかけとなる.本研究では,恋愛における告白の成功・失敗の規定困について検討した.先行研究に習い,使用した規定因は,知り合ってから告白までの期間,告白時間,告白場所,告白方法,告白内容,告白時の相手の交際状況,交際行動であった.自分の恋愛感情に対する相手の気付きや,相手との年齢差をも新たに加えた.また,告白結果に最も影響を与えると考えられる告白者の魅力を個人特性として新たに加えた.知り合ってから3ヶ月末満に夜から深夜の時間帯に告白をしていること,二人で遊びや食事に行くなど二人きりになる交際行動を経ていること,告白時に交際の申し込みをはっきり伝えていることが,恋愛における告白の成功者のパターンであることが示された. Love is a high interest issue for university students, and confessing one's love is an important trigger to start a love relationship. The purpose of this study was to find the factors influencing success and failure of confessing one's love. As in the preceding study, factors used were the time needed until confession, the time of confession, the place, the method, the content, the kind of relationship the partner was involved in, and the kind of acts. Newly added were the partner's notice of the confessor's love and the age difference. Also, the confessor's attractiveness thought to give the most influence to the result of the confession was newly added as a personal trait. As a result, the confessor who was successful had confessed one's love within 3 months since the acquaintance with the partner between night and mid-night, had made time to be alone together by going out together or by going out for a meal together, and had made a proposal for a relationship at the time of confessing one's love.